We all know the adage “actions speak
louder than words.” I think this holds especially true in
genealogy research when we often don't have any “words” to refer
to. By words I mean personal words in the form of letters, journals
and the like. Lacking this we have only the “actions” a person
took in their life such as where they lived, their occupation(s),
whether they accumulated land, etc. to guide us in our attempts to
uncover elements of personality.
When I began writing about my
gg-grandfather's brother, Lawrence Flynn (1844-1916) I had to find a
way to understand what kind of person he was. By looking more
closely at the “actions” in Lawrence's life I came to believe
that he was a passionate, ambitious young man. Here are the actions
in his early life that lead me to that conclusion.
In 1860, Lawrence was working on a
neighbor's farm, though surely he would have been needed on his
parents' farm, being the oldest one still at home. [1]
When only sixteen, Lawrence may have
tried to enlist at the same time as his brother, Edward, shortly
after the Civil War broke out. [2]
At seventeen Lawrence enlisted on 17 Oct 1861 in the
First Michigan Lancers, a unit that was disbanded soon
thereafter. When Lawrence enlisted it was only one day before his
brother John joined a different unit. [3, 4] Lawrence enlisted at
Saginaw, about 40 miles from his parents' home, again possibly indicating he was not living at home. [4]
When Lawrence enlisted again (in the
1st Michigan Mechanics and Engineers) in 1863 he stated his
occupation as “carpenter” and his residence as Detroit (again not
where his parents lived). [5]
After the war, Lawrence moved in with
his brother, Michael, in Three Rivers to learn the carriage-making
trade in his brother's successful shop. [6,7]
After only a few years Lawrence moved
out from under Michael's wing to work in a buggy shop in Constantine.
[8]
By 1877, Lawrence had moved to the
carriage-making hub of Kalamazoo and had joined forces with prominent
carriage-maker Nelson A. Newton. [9, 10, 11]
A few years later Lawrence started a
business with a colleague, blacksmith Frank Whaling, though this
endeavor was ultimately unsuccessful. [12, 13]
Re-printed with generous permission of the Kalamazoo Public Library! [14]
In 1894, Lawrence and Frank started a business for the second time, establishing City Carriage Co. Again, the business failed when
the partners had a falling out that resulted in a lawsuit. [15,
16, 17]
Then I look at those things and ask
myself “what kind of a person would do these things?" To me, these actions suggested
a few things. First, the fact that Lawrence left home at an early
age indicated that he wanted to be on his own. He may have wanted to
emulate his elder brothers and prove that he was ready to be a man,
though it may also be a result of tension between Lawrence and his
parents. I'll never know for certain. Similarly, when Lawrence
enlisted or tried to enlist he may have been trying to be like his
older brothers. Second, after only a few years working in Michael's
carriage-making shop Lawrence moved on, first to Constantine and then
to Kalamazoo. Perhaps he felt he had learned everything he could
from Michael or he wanted to prove to himself or his family that he
could be successful in his own right.
While Lawrence actually did start a
carriage business twice, neither lasted more than a couple of years.
Part of the reason for these failures was likely Lawrence's health.
This was certainly the case for City Carriage. [17]
Lawrence's back had been injured during the Civil War. [18] One
of his lower vertebrae was pushed out of alignment and seems to have
pressed on his spinal cord causing neuralgia in his legs such that
the only time he reported he wasn't in pain was when he was lying
prone. [18, 19]
Lawrence continued working in his
chosen trade until a few years prior to his death. For at least a
few of those years he worked at the Michigan Buggy Company and would
have been there when they began getting their toes wet in the new
automobile trade. After examining Lawrence's actions I came to
believe that he was a passionate, ambitious young man who was not
afraid to take a chance and strike out on his own. He also may have
had a bit of a temper based on his testimony in a couple of lawsuits.
[17, 20] By the time I finished writing
my story about Lawrence (and as I wrote it became more about him and
less about the carriage to car age) I believed he would have been
excited by the burgeoning car industry. He may even have wished he
had been born a little later so he could have had an active role in
this new world.
This is just one more reason why we
need to write down the stories of our relatives. If we look at all
of our documents and read between the lines of a person's actions we
can start to discover the hints of personality. Even if we have few
(or even no) actual words from that person we can flesh them out at
least to some extent. The process of writing forces me, at least, to
really look at everything I have to tease out what makes that person
tick to the best of my estimation. It's true that I can't prove the
elements of personality that I attribute to him in my story. First
of all, I can't. Second, that's not the object of my story. My goal
is to create a narrative about his life that can help to explain the
facts that I have. Who wants to read a recitation of whats and
wheres? I have yet to find a family member beating down my door to
read my notes in my family tree software. The whys are what makes
everything else interesting. Naturally, I try to make reasonable
guesses based on the evidence I have and clearly state that they are
just that, guesses. But, it is often enough to give my family a
story worth reading. One that makes them think about a person they
never knew and want to know more. So, even if you never thought
about writing about someone in your family because you never knew
them and have no personal writings, take a look at their actions and
if you listen carefully they may reveal some little hints of
personality you can't find elsewhere.
- 1860 U.S. census, Washtenaw County, Michigan, population schedule, Webster, p. 62 (handwritten,), dwelling 469, family 469, Lawrence Flynn; digital image, Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com: accessed 27 Nov 2006), citing NARA microfilm publication M653, roll 548.
- Camp Fire Tales, Kalamazoo (Michigan) Gazette, 30 Jan 1916, page 7, column 2; digital image, Genealogy Bank (http://www.genealogybank.com: accessed 26 March 2011), Kalamazoo Gazette (1837-1922) Collection.
- Compiled Service Record, John Flynn, Pvt., Co H, 14th Michigan Inf.; Carded Records, Volunteer Organizations, Civil War; Records of the Adjutant General's Office, 1780s-1917, Record Group 94; National Archives, Washington, D.C.
- Muster In Rolls, Lawrence Flynn, Pvt., Co E, 1st Michigan Lancers; Ovs 78 Folder 03 Doc 27 Regimental Service Records, Michigan Adjutant General, Record Group 59-14: Records of the Michigan Military Establishment; digital image, Seeking Michigan (http://www.seekingmichigan.org: accessed 29 Sep 2011), Archives of Michigan, Lansing, Michigan.
- Pension fact sheet signed by Lawrence, Lawrence H. Flynn (Cpl., Co. M, 1st MI Eng. and Mech., Civil War), application no. 279,062, certificate no. 382,696, Case Files of Approved Pension Applications. . ., 1861-1934; Civil War and Later Pension Files; Department of Veterans Affairs, Record Group 15; National Archives, Washington, D.C.
- Lawrence Flynn deposition for Edward Flynn (p. 21), Edward A. Flynn (Pvt. Co I, 2nd MI Inf., Civil War), application no. 83,138, certificate no. 63,675, Case Files of Approved Pension Applications. . ., 1861-1934; Civil War and Later Pension Files; Department of Veterans Affairs, Record Group 15; National Archives, Washington, D.C.
- “Died.” The News Reporter (Three Rivers, Michigan), 25 Sep 1880, page 4, Microfilm Collection, Roll No. Western Michigan University Archives and Regional History Collections, Kalamazoo, Michigan.
- 1870 U.S. census, St. Joseph County, Michigan, population schedule, Constantine Post Office, p. 6 (handwritten), dwelling 46, family 48, Lawrence Flynn; digital image, Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com: accessed 27 Nov 2006), citing NARA microfilm publication M593, roll 700.
- “Wanted.” Kalamazoo (Michigan) Daily Telegraph, 13 Mar 1877, p. 4, col 6, digital images, Kalamazoo Public Library (http://www.kpl.gov: accessed 24 Feb 2012), Kalamazoo Telegraph Collection.
- “The County Fair,” Kalamazoo (Michigan) Daily Telegraph, 26 Sep 1877, p. 4, cols 3-4, digital images, Kalamazoo Public Library (http://www.kpl.gov: accessed 24 Feb 2012), Kalamazoo Telegraph Collection.
- The Gazette directory of Kalamazoo County : containing complete village directories for all villages in the county, and a complete record of landholders by townships with number of acres, post office address and sections (Kalamazoo: Kalamazoo Gazette Book and Jobs Rooms, 1878) 53.
- Kalamazoo (Michigan) Daily Telegraph, 21 Oct 1879, p. 1, col 2, digital images, Kalamazoo Public Library (http://www.kpl.gov: accessed 25 Feb 2012), Kalamazoo Telegraph Collection.
- “Jottings,” Kalamazoo (Michigan) Daily Telegraph, 23 Mar 1883, p. 3, col 2, digital images, Kalamazoo Public Library (http://www.kpl.gov: accessed 25 Feb 2012), Kalamazoo Telegraph Collection.
- Kalamazoo (Michigan) Daily Telegraph, 13 Aug 1880, p. 6, col 2, digital images, Kalamazoo Public Library (http://www.kpl.gov: accessed 25 Feb 2012), Kalamazoo Telegraph Collection.
- “City Carriage Co. A New Institution Nearly Ready For Business,” Kalamazoo (Michigan) Gazette, 30 Sep 1894, (clipping, page no. not recorded – older/wiser now), digital images, Genealogy Bank (http://www.genealogybank.com: accessed 26 Mar 2011), Kalamazoo Gazette (1837-1922) Collection.
- “Injunction Granted,” Kalamazoo (Michigan) Gazette, 13 Dec 1895, (clipping, page no. not recorded – older/wiser now), digital images, Genealogy Bank (http://www.genealogybank.com: accessed 26 Mar 2011), Kalamazoo Gazette (1837-1922) Collection.
- Kalamazoo County, Michigan, Chancery Court, docket 8, Case 120, Lawrence Flynn v. Frank Whaling, filed 12 Dec 1895, Microfilm Collection, Roll No., Western Michigan University Archives and Regional History Collections, Kalamazoo, Michigan.
- Lawrence's statements, Lawrence H. Flynn (Cpl., Co. M, 1st MI Eng. and Mech., Civil War), application no. 279,062, certificate no. 382,696, Case Files of Approved Pension Applications. . ., 1861-1934; Civil War and Later Pension Files; Department of Veterans Affairs, Record Group 15; National Archives, Washington, D.C.
- Doctor's statement, Lawrence H. Flynn (Cpl., Co. M, 1st MI Eng. and Mech., Civil War), application no. 279,062, certificate no. 382,696, Case Files of Approved Pension Applications. . ., 1861-1934; Civil War and Later Pension Files; Department of Veterans Affairs, Record Group 15; National Archives, Washington, D.C.
- Kalamazoo County, Michigan, Chancery Court, docket , Case , Lawrence Flynn v. Andrew Holmes, filed 1893, Microfilm Collection, Roll No., Western Michigan University Archives and Regional History Collections, Kalamazoo, Michigan.